Tips For Choosing a Pet

Tips for choosing a pet. Here are some things to consider when choosing a pet to ensure a good fit with your family. 
No pet should be an impulse buy. 

Don't give in to whining and pleading as you pass a pet store. A pet will cost you a lot of time and money and will be with your family for its entire life.

To make pet ownership a positive experience, research before bringing a pet home. If the kids are old enough, consider having them research and present their findings to you. 

After all, if the kids have to research the pet and wait for it, they are more likely to appreciate it and help care for it once they bring it home.

Tips for Choosing a Pet Type

Pets come in all sizes, shapes, and forms; there's bound to be one that suits your family's needs and your tolerance level. 

Here are a few tips for choosing a pet type:

• Expense: Do you want a $1,000 purebred dog or a $40 parakeet? Look beyond the purchase price. Consider how much the animal will cost each year in food, grooming, vet care, and other essentials. Where is this money coming from?

• Allergies and phobias: Why let Cassidy get one if Bobby is allergic to cats? If Christina is terrified of dogs, would a lab be the right choice for Billy? 

• Housing: Do you have an appropriate place for the pet? Room for it to roam? A dog requires a fenced-in yard or a commitment to walking it several times daily.

• Lifespan: How long does the pet live? Rats only live a couple of years. While this might be ideal for a child with a short attention span, it could prove traumatic for a child who has bonded with the creature. Cockatoos, on the other hand, live up to 70 years. Do you want a pet you must provide for in your will? 

Tips for Choosing a Pet by Maintenance Levels

Tips for Choosing a Pet That Is Low Maintenance

Tips for choosing a pet: Lowest maintenance options. These are pets that don't require a lot of nurturing or special care. 

They don't require grooming, walking, or even petting. 

Just the basics: food, water, and shelter. These are good starter pets. They also offer the least payback in terms of returning love and affection. 

Tips For Choosing a Pet 

Most freshwater fish are inexpensive to buy and maintain after the initial investment of a tank or bowl and accessories.

Some fish are hardier than others. For small kids, go for inexpensive, durable fish like goldfish. You don't want floaters to start your pet career.

To start, go for a solitary goldfish or betta in a simple bowl. If that's a hit, you can move on to an aquarium. Lighted aquariums can even function as nightlights in a child's bedroom. 

Maintenance will involve feeding once or twice a day and cleaning the bowl once a week. (Algae will grow more slowly if the aquarium is kept away from direct sunlight.)

Tips For Choosing a Pet Reptile or Snake

Little boys (and some little girls) love lizards and snakes. Most moms don't. 

If your kid will have a lizard or snake, be sure there's an adult in the house willing to handle it when choosing a pet at the pet store. 

You've got to have that backup person with pets. In other words, Dad is probably the go-to guy on this one.

Put the reptile in an aquarium with a locked top. You don't want Timmy taking it out without your supervision. 

When choosing a pet, avoid large snakes, such as pythons, that might ingest small children. Research reptiles and their living requirements before you decide. Some require live (shudder) food.

If you are determined, however, when choosing a pet, at least get a snake trained to accept frozen mice instead of the live, running-around variety. Then, all you have to do is heat (to room temperature) and serve.

Some reptiles, like iguanas, grow to five feet long and can be hazardous to other pets. Some (such as pythons) can grow to 13 feet long and can be dangerous to everyone. 

When choosing a pet, remember to ask how large the reptile will be in adulthood. 'Nuff said.

Even though reptiles are relatively sturdy, they are still living creatures. Never let young children handle them unsupervised. Make sure you choose a tame reptile that does not try to bite. 

Good lizard choices are a bearded dragon or a gecko. Good snake choices include a corn snake, a rat snake, or a king snake.

While reptiles and snakes are relatively easy, they have needs you'll want to consider when choosing a pet: a tank, lights, water, and food. 

Lizards need places to hide and things to perch on. Tropical or desert reptiles will also need a heat source, which is not cheap.

For example, the bearded dragon requires a 10-gallon terrarium with a screen top for the first year and a 40-gallon terrarium as he grows (very, very fast) up to 18 inches. 

Many reptiles are omnivores, which means they eat fruit, vegetables, steak, and mice as well. Feeding them is not a simple matter of dropping in some pellets each day.

Reptiles don't need a lot of exercise (though if you released one near me, I would get a lot of exercise), and they don't need a lot of attention. Figure on 15-30 minutes daily to feed them and about an hour a week to clean the tank.

Tortoises and turtles are other good reptile choices. Turtles are amphibians; tortoises are land creatures. Make sure you provide the right environment for your species. 

Turtles can be quite affectionate and are long-lived: 30 to 40 years for the box turtle. Even though they look sturdy, do not drop them because that could injure their shells or internal organs. Tortoises, in particular, should not be handled often. 

Tips For Choosing a Pet: Rodents

Rodents like rats, mice, gerbils, and hamsters make sweet starter pets. 

They are small, furry, and cuddly, and they happily stay in their cages when the kids aren't playing with them. 

Other advantages in choosing a pet rodent? They are quiet, not messy, and relatively easy to care for. They usually are inexpensive to buy and maintain.

Pet Rats and Mice

First, mice are not baby rats. Two different species. Two distinct personalities.

Rats are especially intelligent and friendly despite their nasty-looking tails. Mice are cute and fun to watch in cages, but they are squirmy and nippy when held and loved. 

If you want a love bucket, get a rat. Hold them at the store, and if the rat or mouse is a nipper, request another one. 

Also, the younger you get them, the easier they are to tame and bond with.

Male or female? Good question. Male rat urine can be a bit smelly, plus males will mark territory with a drop of urine - a drawback if you let him out a lot.

On the other hand, males are a lot calmer and more loving. If you change the litter at least once a week, the smell should not be an issue.

You'll need a special place for the rat cage. Shavings can be messy. And the cages take up a lot of room. Each rat requires a minimum of two cubic feet.

So, if you had a rat couple, that would mean a cage 2 feet by 2 feet by 2 feet.

Rats must be allowed to run around for at least a few minutes daily. You (or the kid) must supervise this outing, as they like to nibble through telephone cords and electrical wires. 

And, of course, you don't want them getting lost in your walls or closets, either. Rats live two to four years; mice live one to three years.

Tips For Choosing a Pet: Other Rodents to Consider

• Hamsters: These guys need extra Vitamin C. They can bite, and they're more vocal than most rodents. They are best kept alone. They are nocturnal, maybe a bit sleepy during the day, and more active than you would like at night. They live for 2 or 3 years.

• Gerbils: are small but fun pets. They are not as intelligent or cuddly as rats, but they are happier in pairs, so get a couple. Gerbils live for 2 to 3 years.

• Guinea pigs: Guinea pigs make sweet, gentle pets. Get a guinea pig pair. They need a large cage and a special hay, vegetables, and Vitamin C diet. They can live 5 to 7 years.

Small Birds

Birds are usually not suitable pets for kids under the age of 8.

Kids below this age aren't gentle enough to properly care for them.

Young kids dart about and alarm birds. Small birds, however, make excellent pets for older children. If you buy a hand-raised bird, it should bond readily with its new owner and be relatively tame if you handle it regularly and gently.

Small birds are easy pets because they are generally confined to the cage and cannot wreak too much havoc. You only need to change the papers in the cage each day and replenish its food and water.

You'll need to do a more thorough cleaning about once a week. Cockatiels and parakeets are particularly good choices. The smaller birds, such as finches and canaries, are mainly for watching, not petting.

Cats

In my prejudiced mind, cats are the perfect pets. They are sweet and cuddly.

They're low-maintenance—you can go away for a weekend and leave food and water for them. They're not messy - indeed, they are fastidious and will look at you in dismay if you neglect to clean their litter boxes regularly.

Of course, they have their drawbacks. They shed. A lot of people are allergic to them. And if you don't provide alternate places to scratch, such as a cardboard or carpeted scratching post, they can shred furniture and floor coverings.

They are relatively long-lived (about 15-20 years); if you keep them indoors, they are usually healthy animals. Don't get kittens for small children.

Cats between 1 and 3 have all the kitten attributes but are a bit hardier and can quickly escape rough little hands. Be careful about introducing a new kitten into a house with another cat or dog.

Tips For Choosing a Pet: Medium Maintenance Animals

Dogs

I have a bias here, too.

I disapprove of entirely outdoor pets. They get neglected, especially during the winter months.

If you have a pet, it must come inside and be part of the family - at least occasionally.

Dogs go through a golden age at about the middle of their lifespan when they are housebroken and calm. 

They no longer chew on your shoes and usually come when called. This golden age only lasts a few years. Dogs can be a lot of work at the beginning and the end of their lives.

Puppies need house training, and they need to learn the rules of the house. 

Otherwise, they might chew up everything.

They are rowdy and rambunctious. With a puppy, you need someone at home full-time for the first few months. Fortunately, they are adorable, too, so there's a payoff. 

Fortunately, by this time, they're one of the family, so you bite the bullet and clean up after them just like you would for Uncle Harry. 

For the biggest payoff, get a long-lived dog so that those golden years will be worth the effort.

Small breeds tend to live longer than large breeds. On the negative side, small breeds are often noisier and more frenetic than larger dogs.

If you are a control freak wanting to make the best choice for your home, consider buying a purebred. 

You can get great dogs at your local animal shelter. And you'll be doing society and nature a favor. But if you have specific requirements, look through the books, and there will be a breed that meets those requirements.

My friend Kim, for example, wanted to get a dog for her daughter. Her husband did not want a dog. Repeat. No dog. OK, she asked, but why don't you want a dog? because, he said, it would tie us down. 

It will chew up the house, terrorize the cats, mess in the house, shed, and bark. I'm allergic. We will have to walk it.

Kim and her daughter plunged headfirst into every dog book they could find and emerged with a couple of breeds that fit his specifications. Five years later, proud daddy loves to walk the little Shih Tzu around the neighborhood.

You can buy a calm dog, a hyper dog, a watchdog, and a lap dog. You can buy a dog that doesn't shed and doesn't bark. Whatever you want is out there. 

But remember that large dogs usually need lots of exercise. And any dog needs a good 20-minute walk at least twice a day. 

And unlike cats, you can't just run off for the weekend and leave them. Dogs are pack animals. They need people around. 

They also need to be walked, fed and watered frequently. Before you say yes to a dog, consider your spare time and energy.

Tips For Choosing a Pet: What to Know About High Maintenance Pets

You can put large birds, such as parrots and cockatoos, and any exotic animal in this category.

These pets require more attention, expensive cages or habitats, and specialized vet care. And try to find a pet sitter for them when you go on vacation. 

These are not usually pets for children. Often, they see children as something below them in the pecking order. And that is not good. 

If you would like an exotic pet, that's one thing. But don't get one just for the kid.

Parrots and cockatoos make cool conversation pieces. They are fun and comical, easy to train to do tricks, and very social birds that bond readily with people.

But they are also loud: they screech. They are messy and destructive. If you ignore or neglect them, they become self-destructive and pick their feathers out. 

And they live 70 to 80 years.  Just think of signing on for a 2-year-old who will never grow up. Ever.

Pets impact the whole family, not just the "owner" (or, if you live in enlightened areas, the "guardian"). Considering these and other factors before choosing a pet, you'll set up everyone in your home for a successful, rewarding experience.